Friday, April 29, 2022

Caring Love (Eph. 5:28-30)

 

SPIRITUAL DIARY FOR 8/27/2019 10:35 AM

 

My Worship Time                                                                                          Focus: “Caring Love”

 

Bible Reading & Meditation                                              Reference:  Ephesians 5:28-30

 

            Message of the verses:  28 So husbands ought also to love their own wives as their own bodies. He who loves his own wife loves himself; 29 for no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ also does the church, 30 because we are members of His body.”

 

            We have learned that the church is called the “body of Jesus Christ,” and as we look at these verses we see that the husband should love his own wife as he loves his body.  Some men may not believe that they love their own body, but think about how much time you spend caring for your body and you will see that you actually do love your own body.  We as husbands are to care for our wife to the extent as we would for our wife’s welfare as we do for our own body.

 

            I suppose that in our generation that both men and women care more for their bodies than ever before.  Vitamins, exercise, clothing and many other things seem to be more important today than ever before.  The amount of money spent on personal needs for our bodies is many times over what was spent in centuries before us.

 

            As Christians we know that our body is the temple of the Holy Spirit thus we should take proper care of our bodies as we give them the right food, maintaining reasonable strength, getting enough rest, and other things we won’t take the time to mention.  “When we have a healthy body we have a sense of well-being; and when a husband meets the needs of his wife—with the same care and concern with which he meets the needs of his body—he will also have a sense of well-being and pleasure as a by-product of his love.”

 

            “The husband who loves his wife as Christ loves the church will no more do anything to harm her than he would to harm his own flesh.  His desire to nourish and cherish her just as he nourishes and cherishes his own body—because that is how Christ also does the church” (MacArthur Commentary on Ephesians).

 

            When a husband looks at his wife as a cook, housekeeper, occasional companion, and sex partner he is not loving her as Christ loves the church.  Paul wrote in Philippians 4:19 that God supplies “all [our] needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus” and so we are to do this for our wives.  Now again I want to mention that Paul, in this section of Ephesians beginning with 5:18 is talking about things to be done in the power of the Holy Spirit as He fills our lives to accomplish the things He desires us to do and for husbands it is to love their wife as Christ loves the church.

 

            One of the things that the husband is to do is to nourish a wife and provide for her needs and to give that which helps her grow and mature in favor with God and man.  Now to cherish her is to use tender love and physical affection to give her warmth, comfort, protection and also security, as women truly love to know that they are safe.

            John MacArthur concludes:  “Christ provides for us as His church because we are members of His body.  Not to provide for His church would be not to provide for Himself.  He shares common life with His church, and we are members of His body, His flesh and bones, His present incarnation on earth.  Paul said, ‘The one who joins himself to the Lord is one spirit with him’ ((1 Cor. 6:17), and again, ‘I have been crucified with Christ; and it is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me, and delivered Himself up for me’ (Gal. 2:20).

 

            Spiritual meaning for my life today:  I once again am learning the importance of being filled with the Holy Spirit in order for me to love my wife as Christ loves His Church.

 

My Steps of Faith for Today:  From the beginning of this year up until now and beyond I am learning about humility and the biggest thing that I have learned about it is to be filled with the Holy Spirit so that I will be humble.

 

Today’s quotation from “Love in Action”

 

“You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall love your neighbor and hate

your enemy.’  But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who

Curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those

Who spitefully use you and persecute you.

Matthew 5:43-44

 

8/27/2019 11:06 AM

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