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True Gentleness (1 Thess 2:7)

 

SPIRITUAL DIARY FOR 4/7/2014 8:45 AM

My Worship Time                                                                                          Focus: Gentleness

Bible Reading & Meditation                                                 Reference: 1 Thess. 2:7

            Message of the verses:  7 But we proved to be gentle among you, as a nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children.”

            In today’s SD we begin a new section in our journey through the second chapter of 1 Thessalonians as we look at the spiritual leader through the metaphor of being a nursing mother and then we will look at the spiritual leader as a father.  We have seen Paul as a steward in the first six verses of 1 Thessalonians chapter two which shows Paul’s inner life, but now we will look at the apostles outward functions of the divinely approved spiritual leader.  It is a practice of Paul to use different metaphors in his writings to the different churches and people that he wrote to and in this case he uses spiritual parents as his metaphor.  Paul wrote the following to the Galatian church:  “Ga. 4:19 My children, with whom I am again in labor until Christ is formed in you.”  I learned some things from my daughter when she was pregnant with her fourth child when she told me that every child that she had she had to make a commitment of her body being used two years for that child.  I suppose that she may have meant one year and nine months for the first nine months was for her pregnancy and then the next year was nursing the baby.  It takes a lot of commitment to have the use of your body for the benefit of another person and that perhaps is why Paul used this metaphor when writing to the church at Thessalonica. 

            We will only look at verse seven in our study for today:  “7 But we proved to be gentle among you, as a nursing mother tenderly cares for her own children.”  I want to begin with a quote from Warren Wiersbe:  “Paul also nourished them.  First Thessalonians 2:7 can read ‘even as a nursing mother cherishes her own children.’  What is the lesson here?  A nursing mother imparts her own life to the child.  This is exactly what Paul wrote in 1 Thessalonians 2:8.  You cannot be a nursing mother and turn your baby over to someone else.  The baby must be in your arms, next to your heart.”  As I read this the first time I began to better realize what my daughter was saying about her commitment to her child. 

            John MacArthur writes “As mothers are absolutely and indisputably essential to the wellbeing of children, so spiritual leaders who minister with a mother’s gentleness, intimate affection, sacrificial love, and unselfish labor are essential for the health of the church.”

            We see that verse seven begins with the word “But” and Paul is contrasting how he and Silas, and Timothy cared for the believes with those who were false teachers, those who were telling lies about Paul, those who were operating by the deceitful abusiveness of Satan’s agents.  Paul proved to be gentle among them.

            John MacArthur writes that the word “gentle” is at the heart of this verse.  “It means to be kind to someone and encompasses a host of other virtues:  acceptance, respect, compassion, tolerance of imperfections, patience, tenderheartedness, and loyalty.”  This is quite the opposite of those in Paul’s day, and even our own day who want to exploit people into getting their money and other favors from them, favors we spoke about in earlier SD’s.

            We will end this portion of this SD with another quote from John MacArthur who explains what “tenderly cares” means.  “The verb rendered tenderly cares literally means to warm with body heat.  The loving mother would take the little one in her arms and warm the child with her own body heat.  Such a vivid metaphor perfectly illustrates the kind of personal care the Thessalonians received.  Paul, unlike the enemies of the truth, was not harsh or indifferent, but tenderly nurturing.”

            Spiritual meaning for my life today:  One thing that I can say for sure is that after reading this passage and the commentaries that I read to help me better understand this verse, I realize that mothers have a great role in the lives of their children.  Now I knew that they had a great role, but this just reinforces it to me.  There are great problems with motherhood in today’s world as many mothers, with the influence of their husbands, put their babies into day care centers where they can never get the love and attention they need to help their children grow in the proper way.  I realize that much of this has to do with money problems that are in our world today.

My Steps of Faith for Today:  Proverbs 3:5-6.

Answer to yesterday’s Bible question:  “Leviticus.”

Today’s Bible question:  “What does the name Israel mean?”

Answer in our next SD.

4/7/2014 9:49 AM

             

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