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How Can A Believer Be Sexually Moral? PT-1 (1 Thess. 4:4-6a)

 

SPIRITUAL DIARY FOR 6/7/2014 9:09 AM

My Worship Time                                Focus:  How Can A Believer Be Sexually Moral?  (PT-1)

Bible Reading & Meditation                                                Reference:  1 Thessalonians 4:4-6A

            Message of the verses:  Before we get started on our subject for today I wish to use the ending quote from John MacArthur’s commentary from our subject of yesterday’s SD (What Kind of Sexual Conduct Does God Require?) We will have to look first at 1 Corinthians 6:15-20 before we look at his ending quote:  “15 Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take away the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? May it never be! 16 Or do you not know that the one who joins himself to a prostitute is one body with her? For He says, "THE TWO SHALL BECOME ONE FLESH." 17 But the one who joins himself to the Lord is one spirit with Him. 18 Flee immorality. Every other sin that a man commits is outside the body, but the immoral man sins against his own body. 19 Or do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your own? 20 For you have been bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body.”

            “Paul may have had such sins in mind when he later told the Corinthians, ‘You cannot drink the cup of the Lord and the cup of demons: you cannot partake of the table of the Lord and the table of demons’ (1 Cor. 10:21).  The demonic cup and table refer to the worship in pagan temples in Corinth, and part of that idolatrous ritual entailed the worshipers having sexual intercourse with temple prostitutes.  The apostle was concerned that the new Corinthian believers had not completely abandoned such activities.  The situation at Corinth, where Paul was when he wrote the Thessalonian epistles, surely highlighted the danger of sexual sin and motivated Paul’s warning to the Thessalonians.  The command, then, is for total abstinence from any sexual activity outside marriage.”   

            Now we will proceed with the subject of today’s SD beginning with the verses we will be looking at over the next few days:  “4 that each of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor, 5 not in lustful passion, like the Gentiles who do not know God; 6 and that no man transgress and defraud his brother in the matter (1 Thess. 4:4-61).”

            We will begin today to look at the first of three timeless principles that Paul gives here for maintaining sexual morality.  It is good to remember that the temptation that we undergo is directed towards that old nature, the sights, sounds and philosophies affect the old nature that all believers still have and will continue to have until their death or until the Lord comes at the rapture of the Church.

            The Body Should Not Control the Believer (1 Thess. 4:4):  “4 that each of you know how to possess his own vessel in sanctification and honor,”

            As one reads through the NT they come across lists of sinful desires and practices, and example of this is found in Galatians chapter five where Paul lists the fruit of the Spirit, but before that he has another list, a list of sinful activities.  “17 For the flesh sets its desire against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh; for these are in opposition to one another, so that you may not do the things that you please. 18 But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the Law. 19  Now the deeds of the flesh are evident, which are: immorality, impurity, sensuality, 20  idolatry, sorcery, enmities, strife, jealousy, outbursts of anger, disputes, dissensions, factions, 21  envying, drunkenness, carousing, and things like these, of which I forewarn you, just as I have forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God (Gal. 5:17-21).”  Jesus also gave lists of sinful activities in some of His sermons.  My point in all of this is that not all believers have troubles with all sinful activities, but we all have trouble with some just as Paul wrote in verse 17, and he also wrote about this in Romans chapter seven where he stated that he was doing the things that he did not want to do and not doing the things he wanted to do.  We Are In A War, and that war pits the spirit against the flesh.  Many male believers have the temptations with sexual sins either by thought or by deed, and here is a good point to remember that all sins begins in the mind, and the mind is a part of the body, and are lesson for today is that we need to control our bodies and not have our bodies control us.  This may seem impossible, and left to ourselves it is, but as Paul wrote to the Galatians and the Corinthians we have the Holy Spirit living in us, the third Person of the Trinity. 

            John MacArthur says this about the word “know”:  Know is from oida, which carries the idea of having the knowledge or skill necessary to accomplish a desired goal.  Every Christian needs to know himself well so as to understand his weaknesses and evil propensities and, thereby know how to possess (‘gain mastery over’) his own vessel.”

            I want to write briefly about the word vessel to say that some believe because this word is used in 1 Peter speaking of a wife that Paul is talking about a wife in this passage.  Paul writes in some of his letters, like Colossians and Ephesians about the family, but he is not writing about the family here so the word vessel here speaks of our bodies and we are to know how to possess it in sanction and honor as verse four states.  MacArthur writes “Paul was admonishing the Thessalonians to control their bodies, the unredeemed human flesh that is the beachhead for sin and immorality (cf. Rom. 7:18; 8:5-8, 23).  For this reason Paul urged believers to kill the flesh (cf. Rom. 13:14; 2 Cor. 7:1), live by the Spirit (Rom. 8:13), and dedicate their bodies to God and allow His Spirit to renew their minds so that the body would not control them (Rom. 12:1-2).”

            Just think about when you see an advertisement on your TV, and you have to ask the question “What is the advertisement appealing to?”  The answer is your physical appetite, and they do a good job in doing it too.  I leased a car last November and after that I received a survey to fill out and some of the questions that were asked was why I leased this car.  Did I lease this car “to show it off” now that is not exactly the question, but that was the meaning of the question.  My answer was no I leased the car because it was a good deal, and that it will get me where I want to go.  This survey assumes that the advertisement to “my flesh” worked. 

            We see advertisements of half naked women selling toothpaste or dippers or just about anything in order for men to purchase the items they advertise, and it works.  Paul says that we have to learn how to control our old nature.  Paul writes the following to the Corinthians “Food is for the stomach and the stomach is for food, but God will do away with both of them. Yet the body is not for immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord is for the body.  Do you not know that your bodies are members of Christ? Shall I then take away the members of Christ and make them members of a prostitute? May it never be!”  (1 Cor. 6:13, 15).”  When we read these verses we may tend to think that there must have been advertisements in Paul’s days that he was telling the Corinthians to stay away from.  Sexual pleasure is a gift from the Lord used to have children and also to bring pleasure to a man and his wife.  Since the fall that is spoken of in Genesis chapter three all persons ended up with a sinful nature, for God told Adam and Eve that when they would eat of the tree He told them not to eat from that they would die.  They died spiritually right away, and physically latter on and the man passes on this sinful nature to he children.  When Jesus came to pay for our sins and we accept His forgiveness and make Him our Savior and Lord through faith then we receive a new nature and as we have spoken of here this new nature goes against the old nature.  The old nature always wants to do wrong, while the new nature always wants to do right.  The old nature is described as the flesh and what Paul is writing about in verse four is that we need to control the flesh and live a life in sanctification and honor as we learn to control the old nature.  I heard a story of an Indian who received Christ as Savior and Lord and the person who led him to the Savior as him how he was doing in his walk with the Lord.  The Indian said that he had two dogs in him fighting, a white one who wanted to do good, and a black one who wanted to do wrong.  He was asked which one was winning, and the Indian said the one who I say sic-um to. We have the same choice in our walk with the Lord, a walk that Paul says we need to “excel still more.”

            John MacArthur writes “In several of his other letters, the apostle Paul made it crystal clear that in order to control their bodies believes must rely on the Hoy Spirit.  ‘Walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh’ (Gal 5:16).  The key to walking in the Spirit is being filled with the Spirit (Eph. 5:17-18), and the key to being filled with the Spirit is for believers to let God’s Word dwell within them (Col. 3:16; cf. Pss. 19:7-11; 119:11, 105).  They must sincerely read, study and apply Scripture so that it saturates their lives and allows them to yield complete control to the Holy Spirit.

            “No Christian should every ask how far his or her moral behavior can depart from God’s standard and still avoid sin.  Rather, believers should strive to be utterly separate from immorality so that they can honor their bodies, which belong to God, and use them to glorify Jesus Christ, the Head of the church.”

            Spiritual meaning for my life today:  It is my desire to be able to possess my body in sanctification and honor as Paul writes here.  It is a daily battle, but I do have the Holy Spirit living in me to show me what His Word says and to empower me to live a life that is pleasing to Him.  I have to fight the god fight.

My Steps of Faith for Today:  Fight the good fight and if I fall to remember that the successful Christian life is a series of new beginnings, and to get up and continue to fight the good fight by the help of the Holy Spirit.

Memory verses for the week:  “Philippians 2:5-8

5 Have this attitude in yourself which was also in Christ Jesus, 6 who, although He existed in the form of God did not regard equality with God a thing to be grasped, 7 but emptied Himself taking on the form of a bond-servant, and being made in the likeness of men.  8 Being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself by becoming obedient to the point of death, even death on a cross.

Answer to yesterday’s Bible question:  “John” (John 1:1).

Today’s Bible question:  “Where did Abram go during a famine?”

Answer in our next SD.  6/7/2014 10:36 AM

 

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